In what ways do you communicate online?
How Do You Communicate Online? The Real Picture of Your Digital Identity
What was the first thing you did this morning? Sip your tea, or check your mobile phone? And if you checked your phone, did you send a message on WhatsApp? Watch a story on Instagram? Or share a post on Facebook?
Table of Contents
1. The Truth About Our Online Communication
2. The First Way: The Game of Words (Written Communication)
3. The Second Way: Talking Pictures (Visual Communication)
4. The Third Way: The Era of Video Calls
5. The Fourth Way: Public Conversations on Social Media
6. The Fifth Way: Emails and Professional Talks
7. The Sixth Way: Gaming and Virtual Worlds
8. The Seventh Way: Silence and Deleted Messages
9. How to Make Your Online Communication Meaningful?
10. Conclusion: Humanity in the Digital World
Introduction: The ARB Formula
A (Attraction):
Have you ever noticed how many people you talk to online throughout the day? From the “Good Morning” messages in the morning to that last scroll before sleeping at night, we are constantly connected to someone. But is this connection really a “connection,” or is it just a habit? Your online communication says everything about you that you don’t say in words.
R (Reason):
This article is important because most of us forget that there is a human being sitting behind the screen. The way we speak is the way we think, and the way we think is what we become. Our online communication style doesn’t just affect our relationships, it directly impacts our mental peace and professional growth. Understanding this is crucial so we can avoid getting lost in the digital world and truly live our real lives.
B (Benefits):
After reading this article, you will gain seven clear benefits:
1. You will be able to understand your own online behavior.
2. You will learn how to create a positive impact on social media.
3. You will know how to avoid sending messages written in anger or emotion.
4. You will be able to differentiate between professional and personal communication.
5. You will be able to strengthen online friendships and relationships.
6. You will understand the real need for a digital detox.
7. Most importantly, you will be able to give your digital identity a meaningful direction.
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1. The First Way: The Game of Words (Written Communication)
When we talk online, the first and most common way is through written words. Whether it’s WhatsApp, Messenger, or a text message, we string our feelings into sentences.
But the biggest challenge is that written words don’t carry the same tone as spoken words. You write “okay,” and the other person thinks you’re angry. But maybe you wrote it with a smile.
So, keep three things in mind for written communication:
· Using emojis correctly: They’re not just kids’ stuff. They give emotion to your words. 😊 clearly means you’re positive.
· The danger of the full stop: There’s a big difference between “Okay.” and “Okay”. Using a period (.) can sometimes come across as harsh. Notice how often you use it.
· One-way communication: If you just say your piece and then go silent, not waiting to hear the other person, that’s not a conversation; it’s a monologue.
2. The Second Way: Talking Pictures (Visual Communication)
Today’s world is all about pictures. On Instagram, Pinterest, Facebook, every other post is a photo or a meme. Did you know? A picture is worth a thousand words.
When you share a picture, you’re telling people where you are, what you’re doing, and most importantly, how you’re feeling.
But here’s a deeper truth to understand:
· Do you share pictures for validation (likes and comments)?
· Do you edit your photos by comparing your life to others’?
· Do you get so lost in capturing every moment that you forget to actually live that moment?
Photos are a treasure of your memories, not a display of your ego. When you post a picture, think: will this inspire someone, teach something, or is it just for show?
3. The Third Way: The Era of Video Calls
Zoom, Google Meet, WhatsApp video calls… Since COVID, this has become a part of our lives. Video calls are the most interactive way to communicate because you can see facial expressions and hear the ups and downs in someone’s voice.
But have you noticed:
· We aren’t as honest on video calls as we are when sitting face-to-face.
· We don’t wait for our turn. As soon as the other person stops talking, we start, even if they haven’t finished their point.
· Sometimes, we dress up more to look good on a video call than we do to actually speak well.
The most important thing in a video call is eye contact. Instead of looking at the face on the screen, look into the camera and talk. This makes the other person feel like you’re truly listening.
4. The Fourth Way: Public Conversations on Social Media
Commenting, sharing posts, reacting to someone’s post – this is all part of public conversation. Here, we’re talking to a large crowd, even if we’re only tagging one person.
The biggest risk in this type of communication is misunderstanding and trolling. You commented as a joke, and the other person took it to heart. Or someone misunderstood the meaning of your post.
Remember three things for public conversation:
· Think, then write: Would you still say what you’re writing if that person was sitting right in front of you?
· Avoid arguments: Not every argument is worth winning. Some battles are better left ignored.
· Learn to admit mistakes: If you’ve said something wrong, don’t hesitate to apologize. It’s not a weakness; it’s a sign of maturity.
5. The Fifth Way: Emails and Professional Talks
This is the most formal way. Emails, LinkedIn messages, or conversations on a company’s chat support. Here, you have to choose your words very carefully.
Three things to learn for professional communication:
1. Clear subject line: What you want should be clear in the very first line.
2. Professional tone: “Hey, how are you?” has a different impact than “Respected Sir, Greetings.”
3. The habit of replying: Even if you don’t have an answer, at least write, “I received your mail, I will reply soon.”
In the professional world, your communication is your identity. If your emails are messy, your work is also perceived as messy, no matter how talented you are.
6. The Sixth Way: Gaming and Virtual Worlds
Do you play PUBG, Free Fire, or any online game? You’re communicating there too. Cursing in the chat window, talking to your team, teasing the enemy – all of this is part of your personality.
Communication in gaming often becomes uncontrolled. In the heat of winning, we forget our humanity. Remember, there’s a human being on the other side of the screen too, with feelings. The game is about winning or losing, but the communication should always be respectful.
7. The Seventh Way: Silence and Deleted Messages
We often think that communication only means speaking or writing. But in the online world, the most powerful communication is silence.
· Reading someone’s message and not replying (ignoring the blue tick)
· Quietly leaving a group
· Seeing a story and not reacting to it
· Deleting a post
These are all ways of communicating too. They show how connected or disconnected you are to that person or topic. So next time you ignore someone, understand that you’re sending a very big message.
8. How to Make Your Online Communication Meaningful?
Now the question is, seeing these seven methods, how can we improve our communication?
First Rule: Send what the other person wants to hear
Don’t always talk about yourself. Understand the other person’s feelings. If someone is sad, don’t preach to them, just listen. Do the same online.
Second Rule: Digital detox is necessary
Stay away from the phone for a few hours a day. Live in the real world. Talk to real people. When you’re happy in real life, your online communication will also be happy.
Fourth Rule: Be authentic
Be the same online as you are in real life. It’s better to live truthfully than to live a life of pretence. People recognize the truth. Fake smiles and fake posts are pointless.
Fifth Rule: Purity of thoughts
You write what you think. You become what you write. So keep your thoughts clean. Avoid negativity. Spread positive energy.
Conclusion: Humanity in the Digital World
Online communication isn’t a separate world. It’s just a part of our real world. Just as we meet people on the street, talk to them, and respect them, we should do the same online.
Remember, technology has connected us, yes, but the real connection is from heart to heart. Your one good message, one positive comment, one inspiring photo could change someone’s entire life.
So, next time you type a message, post a photo, or make a video call, ask yourself:
“Am I just talking, or am I truly connecting?”
Because real communication is that which comes from the heart and reaches the heart. Whether it’s online or offline. Your online communication is your digital identity. Make it beautiful.
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